Thursday, April 18, 2013

Home for the Down Syndrome Dance

I got home and went with my brothers and Nora to eat with my dad and his friend Jennifer and her son Jack, who I knew a long time ago at Jack’s Stack where I enjoyed some delicious ribs. I got to my dad’s house after that and called Erin then spent the night at my dad’s house. The next day my dad, Cam, and I ate brunch in Downtown Overland Park. I then went home to my mom’s and got dressed up for the Down Syndrome Dance.
                At the dance I met up with Tyler and Mary and saw several old familiar faces including an etiquette teacher I know from JCCC, Amy Billingsley and a student from Horizon named Ryan (who doesn’t have Down syndrome) while dancing and watching several "gypsy" dancers. I also read some good pamphlets talking about Down syndrome and people-first language which states you should never say things like “suffers from” or “afflicted by” Down syndrome, something I hate when people do with autism. On the way home I looked forward to having Tyler and Mary over during the summer.  When I got home, I watched Jesse, so accustomed to doing so from living with Tyler, and during the episode, Emma was upset that her rich parents wouldn’t be at her science fair, but Jesse explained that like the planets, even though they weren’t physically close, they react to what going on with the other ones because they have the same gravitational pull, before they showed up because of Jesse insisting on it the day before, which resonated in me strongly. The next day I ate brunch at an Italian buffet with Cam, my dad, and my grandmom. My granddad wasn’t there because he had bronchitis. Later I packed up and went back to school with Jack and his dad.

Monday, April 8, 2013

Warrensburg, Missouri, March 23-29, 2013

My dad and I ate at Crazy Dog’s for lunch when I got into Warrensburg and I ate there for dinner later as the Dining Hall was closed. I also worked on my Tibetan Buddhist mandala wall piece made from toilet paper rolls. Then next day Phillip helped me get my internet working in my dorm (I only needed to plug my Ethernet cord into a different plug) so I could do some Essential Managing Information homework. I also sent drafts of my e-mails to the heads of departments to Dr. Mayfield to see what she thought of them.

                The next day I worked on my travel plans to South Africa during study hall and I realized the upcoming weekend was Easter weekend and I got invited by Tyler to go to the Down Syndrome Guild (a dance) with him and Mary which I thought was on Friday from 7:30-9:30 at the Overland Park Community Center which was a block away from my dad’s house and I agreed to then called my mom to tell her that I would be coming home that weekend and about the dance. The next day I got some fruit snacks and the latest National Geographic Traveler magazine at Bi-Lo Mart and I used two socks from the trash in the laundry room to insulate two of Tyler’s water bottles. I used the leftover box from one of the fruit snack packs to make another shelf row for my toilet paper roll dioramas and I worked some more on my travel plans to South Africa in study hall. The next day I made an appointment with Dr. Mayfield for the next day at two and I realized it might take a while for the group to get started and finding classes for next year.   
The next day I went to that appointment and Dr. Mayfield said that I ought to make an appointment with Krisana West, the academic advisor, and find an individualized major and said that she thought my e-mail to the heads of departments were great and suggested I add the Special Education and Communications Disorders departments to. We decided on 3:00 on Wednesdays for the meetings and reserved rooms for the rest of the semester. We also decided I would type up interest surveys and peer mentor contracts. After the meeting I went to the Office of Student Activities and found out I need to submit a form I have before I submit my constitution on-line and that the group’s constitution can just say it doesn’t do fundraising or dues. Later I found out Transition Planning II class was cancelled because of a family illness of Mr. B’s so Tyler and I used that time to play Frisbee. Unfortunately Tyler’s Frisbee fell below the terrace near the dining hall but I climbed down to get it. Afterwards, Tyler, Jack, and I played Frisbee in the Ellis courtyard. Then my mom arrived and took home Jack, Tyler, and I.

Kansas City, Kansas, March 21-23, 2013

We got home at around seven in the morning and I went back to bed after I got home.  Later that day I bought Nation Geographic 125 Years of Great Explorations: Adventures and Discoveries that Changed the World and Life Magazine’s 100 People Who Changed the World which included Mahatma Gandhi and the Buddha for my magazine collection and The Hobbit: an Unexpected Journey Activity Book at Bruce Smith’s. Later that day I fed the cats and called Erin. The next day I filled out a state and federal tax return before eating at Salty Iguana with Jamie and my dad before I went back to Warrensburg. When I got back I got an e-mail advising us students got back to school tomorrow because of the impending snow. I told my mom and she agreed. The next day I packed some laundry and went back with my dad

The Family Goes South

Our train pulled into New Mexico passing by many adobe houses until finally it arrived outside Santa Fe and my mom, Dave, and I boarded a shuttle along with several other passengers. The only thing is my mom and Dave forgot to call meaning I didn’t have a seat so I had to sit on the floor. Fortunately, when one passenger got out, I got to sit in the front seat. We passed adobe houses, restaurants, and shops until we got into Santa Fe. We made it to our apartment then we decided to explore the town a little bit before going to eat. My mom and I stopped by at a store called Dinosaurs and More which had many dazzling crystal and dinosaur fossils as well as many inexpensive but still genuine oyster, shark’s tooth, seashell, petrified wood, and other types of fossils. I bought an oyster fossil, deciding not to buy too much else for now in case I saw other things I wanted to buy and then my mom and I met up with Dave at a restaurant where we sat out on the balcony and I enjoyed a burger with bacon and fried egg along with a generous glass of Chipotle beer. Afterwards we bought postcards for my mom to send to her family members and for me to send to Tyler. 

The next day, my mom, Dave, and I explored another fossil shop and a beautiful adobe Catholic cathedral before eating lunch where I made two tacos, one beef and one green Italian sausage. Afterwards we went into a bookstore where I, always with my creative side, perused books on Islamic calligraphy and Indian and Tibetan Buddhist religious art, while Mom purchased an old DVD called Five Easy Pieces with Jack Nicholson. I stayed at the apartment while my mom and Dave got massages then we ate at a high end restaurant where I found a new bottle cap for my collection in one of the buckets of bottles and enjoyed a delicious butter roasted chicken. After dinner we stopped by a Whole Foods where we got Imported Harp’s Beer and Strawberry Izzy Esques. We tried to watch Five Easy Pieces that night but couldn’t get our DVD player to work. 
The next day we went to Los Alamos and stopped first in Bandelier National Park where we saw ruins of a Native American village and Anasazi mud huts, cliff dwellings, petroglyphs, and ceremonial pits in the mountains. I learned about how the Anasazi might have moved up into the mountains to escape floods as the river nearby often rises in water level as it’s stream gets narrower, something I learned in Geology, and realized that many cultures probably remained more “primitive” because they had to adapt to new environments that they moved to due to wildebeest migrations, hunting, volcanoes, and warfare. While there, I also thought that the UCM Autism Spectrum Support Groups website also needs to have a place where members can share their experiences before and after, inside the group and out. We made it to a cafĂ© in Los Alamos afterwards where I enjoyed a hot dog wrapped in a bagel. Then we went to the Bradbury Science Museum where much of what I learned in my History class about the atomic bomb was mentioned here.
We ordered some Indian take-out that night, allowing me to feast on chicken satay, tandoori chicken, naan, and rice. That night Mom and I also watched Five Easy Pieces, Jack Nicholson playing a jerk in relationship with an empty-headed blonde using my mom’s laptop and I wrote Tyler’s postcard. Then the next day when we were scheduled to leave my mom and I mailed our postcards and I bought a piece of petrified wood at a local store, before seeing the Georgia O’Keffe Exhibit. Afterwards, I went back to Dinosaurs and More and bought a shark’s tooth, shell, and a few other fossils. Right before leaving Santa Fe, my mom bought me a t-shirt at a Santa Fe store where I bought a prehistoric shark’s tooth and two other fossils, then we took a taxi that brought us to the train. We slept in a sleeping coach that night eating dinner on the train, my enjoying a steak due to the fact that it was paid for through the train fare. The train was scheduled to arrive in Kansas City at 7:15 in the morning and though I had to sleep on the top bunk of the coach, I never-the-less had a fruitful trip to Santa Fe.

Kansas City, Kansas, March 15-16, 2013

Tyler and I got to my house and ate dinner at Mission Hills Country Club with my mom and Dave. Then we went home and Tyler and I watched the Disney Channel until Tyler’s parents came to pick him up at around eleven. The next day Cam left for the Dominican Republic with Nora and I found my pebbles from my trip to Washington that I went on the summer before I came to UCM in Cam’s room which used to be my room, and a Mike Margarita Mix bottle cap lying around for my collection, and I did some bird-watching, identifying many different calls, realizing how diverse the calls, shapes, and sizes of the diverse bird species of Africa must be, and realizing how much I’m surrounded by the natural world. I also fed the cats and packed my suitcase. Then after dinner I emptied and reloaded the dishwasher before my mom, Dave, and I boarded the train at Union Station.

Warrensburg, Missouri, March 10-15, 2013

        On Monday I worked on my Excel 4 Capstone project in my Essential Managing Information class and found four more pebbles four my collection outside Ellis. I studied and worked on my notes for my Geology class and sent them to the other students in my class. I also finished my essay questions for my Transition Planning II class and made another toilet paper roll of Samye monastery in Tibet. On Wednesday morning before I went to sleep I realized that even if I don’t have a film degree, I still have credentials coming to UCM because it shows I can adapt to different environments. I got my clothes and my clothes for the THRIVE formal in the mail and I took my Geology Lab exam which I thought went pretty well. My instructor said it would be easier than we thought. I also did my homework for my Transition Planning II class and I realized my background in General Studies also shows I can adapt to different environments.
                The next day I went down to ProCuts and got my hair cut for the formal. I also got the latest Smithsonian issue for my magazine collection, though when I talked to my Granddad after that he said that I need not buy anymore issues because he gets Smithsonian and can just give me them when he’s done with them. Later I went to the formal at Bodies on Pine Street and danced with many sorority girls. The next day, I turned those pebbles I found into mani stones and I saw Mary see her grandfather come to pick her up and she screamed, “Grandpa!” and ran into him and fling her arms around his waist. I also took my Transition Planning II exam which I know went well and after that, Tyler and I rode home with my mom.